My deepest condolences to you and your family brother.
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My thoughts are with you and your family man. Terrible news and a tragic loss 
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So sorry to hear this @Cannasaurusrex Iām very sad for you 
I will pray for you and your family. 
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@Cannasaurusrex i am So Soooo sorry for your loss, I can not imagine and pray to God I never have to, a parent should never have to bury their child, ever . My sincerest thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family in this time of need and beyond. Please let me/us know if thereās anything, ANYTHING that can be done to ease your burden and without hesitation it will be done. Sending all of my love your way.
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OH thank you all, I think I/we may need you guys and gals from time to time. Cannabis is a common thread in our lives and she is also helping us through this. We are devastated, but take peace in the fact that he did not suffer, and WE all truly believe he was asleep as a passenger, and did not see it coming. I am sorry to put this on here but we need all the hugs and messages we can get. And yes oh yes āstrangersā on THIS internet mean more than you could know to this damaged old soul, and his beatiful girls.
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wow, sorry to hear that! Condolences man, I couldnāt even imagine how it would feel to lose someone that close in the family.
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I am very sorry for your loss, no words
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Nothing I can say except I am sorry for your and there loss.
You are here for a reason, those girls. Much Love & Hugs to You & Yours.
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Oh my! Such news should never be! So sorry for your loss.
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Damn it. Sorry to hear this terrible news. Sending positive vibes your families way.
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Sorry for your loss, prayers go out to you and your family.
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I know I donāt know you @Cannasaurusrex but my heart breaks for you and your family. This is the absolute worst thing that can happen to a parent, I know from experience. I know itās crushing. PM me if you feel like talking to someone who has (barely) survived a similar tragedy. Blessings and positive vibrations to you and your family.
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My sincere condolences.
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Are in my thoughts daily and my prayers every night. 
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I am so sorry hun. It is not easy
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I hope this is ok to post here. It is a photo I took a few years ago and had put a poem by Mary fry in it.
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Thank You so much @BeeLadyā¦This is my first time back, this morning to the internet, and read your message and (OOOHH soo fitting ) Poem. Iām not well read, and have heard of Mary Frye, so I think poetry will be something I read more of. Thank you.
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Well OGāers I missed you all. I had a bit of difficulty with the grieving side of things and I was led away in an armed convoy (to the Psych ward) for the last 10 days. Yeah, donāt EVER say āthings canāt get any worseā¦ā I am working thru this shit, and my ALL-female household held down the fort and all things dear, while I missed my only sons funeralā¦Iām beyond mortified and ashamed of what I just put my girls thoughā¦ANYHOWā¦ we are all doing excellent, my girls are as tight as can beā¦ they are a real force to be reckoned with. I can start my recovery now that Iām home. Iām saying this here in public post, but if anyone wants to reach out, shoot me a pm, (friend or not). For bereaved peeps or people suffering a loss or emotional issuesā¦Iām here to share my observations/lessons I am learning with any OGer. Even my family thought I may ādo something stupidā as my āacute grief stress incidentā caused me to have a breakdown. Humiliating to the MAXā¦I am NOT a self-harm person at all, but have more anger/hate shit that peeps were afraid I was gonna lash out. Anyway, there is a lot of shit I have to catch up on, including the thc vs. medicine debate in full colour. Doctors prefer the donāt ask , donāt tell game. They donāt want to debate it. The nurses kept asking my family "What does he (me) mean by āThc is in my DNAā and ātobacco is only a burning mediumāā¦ wild stuff when I have time to share. I have no older men in my life except through work (Iām 58) or OG, so I may use the cave or medical threads to help me talk and discuss my way back to NEW NORMLā¦yeah still smokin and still growin, just a 2 week tolerance break so-to-speak. I have a lot of calls to make and a thousand than youās to give. I CANāT LEAVE my home away from home here at Overgrow.comā¦Thanks Homies says the old white dinosaurā¦PEACE
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ON a positive noteā¦I made a funeral home owner cryā¦and apologize to my lovely ladiesā¦no shit LOL
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Sorry you had such a hard time man, but the extreme emotional response may be a blessing in disguise, although it may take time to realise this.
Whenever I had a therapy client tell me they had a close family member pass, I would always expect a rapid conclusion of their therapy and neurosis problems.
To access repressed emotions which we could not handle at the time, and why they became repressed and hidden, usually as children, you have to generate the same emotional level or state.
The loss of someone very close can create that high level emotional state again and all the repressed emotions from way back, all start coming up to the surface.
At this point you do not need to understand where they are coming from, just that you are releasing a lot of emotional baggage you donāt need to be carrying around anymore.
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