Thanks everyone, I knew you all would let me vent. I'm feeling better already. Got out and ran a few errands and got some Starbucks.
She's a mutt, part yellow lab mix and part German Shepherd. I am crate training her at night and that's going pretty well. During the day I confine her to my room with the floor covered. Last night was an off night. She needed out four times. Two of them were to poop, so I can't complain really.
Actually, for 9 weeks she's really smart. Learning sit, wait, and give already. Too young still for leash training, but im getting her used to the lead. We will start classes soon for socialization. Once she's inoculated things will be easier, I can take her out with me. Next week daughter is am mom's, so taking care of the garden will be easier.
Deep breaths, oooohhhhmmmmmm