I was 18 and debating smoking mary jane. Did a bunch of library reading about it (that’s where I spent a lot of time growing up) and when I told my Mom and Step Dad I was going to try marijuana, they asked to come down into the basement…
“If you’re going to smoke for the first time, it might as well be with your family”. Then I learned he grew his stash in his Moms backyard out in the country….