Is there something wrong with me? 
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You talking grow partnerā¦ your forever keeper strain/cut, or something even more personal lol. Either way itās a very personal decision and things may change. But there are those here that have kept a cut around for 20+ years, so they know what they like or just being stubborn lol.
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Yah sorry I should have been clearer, I meant a life partner, after being divorced and several other failed money-sucker relationships Iām struggling to understand what is wrong with me or them 
And btw I would never have a grow partner read too many horror stories
After you hit the dating that ādating sceneā and keep bringing home males you thought were females, thereās a certain comfort in getting consistent results from a reliable cut- even if they arenāt perfect.
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Ikrā¦ gimme some popcorn!
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I got the super jumbo with free refills. This threads about to get good.
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If you come here looking for relationship advice. You do have a problem. Lol
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Mutual respect is hard to find. Sometimes you have to give even if you donāt want too.
Iām lucky.
Good luck
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In my case it took being with the wrong person for over a decade to realize what I wanted in a partner and what was really important. Iād assume some folks get luckier and get it right off the bat, others take longer to figure it out.
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You always have to mind the gapā¦
Best advice I can give
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Many folks donāt end up finding one person to spend the rest of their life with. Many feel itās better that way. Met many folks who have had a number of shorter fulfilling relationships, or been single for many years, and appreciate where itās led them in life. My own folks have been together for 31 years and I straight up have no clue why sometimes cause they really donāt get along.
If youāre really looking for a life partner, I think not pushing things helps. and maybe donāt look for someone to spend the rest of your life with- but rather someone where you both want to spend time with each other and see where it goes from there. Youāll end up where you need to be regardless.
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Been married almost 3 times.
Modern women want a character. I donāt mean an interesting person. I mean a cartoon. Your demeanor cannot vary any more in your daily life than a cartoon character varys his 11 minute episodeā¦ Women donāt grasp the concept of a real person anymore. To them a real person is a person dedicated to an act. Posting photos on Facebook is more enjoyable to the modern woman than actually making the memories because youre just a character in her comic book.
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Disagree. Real is real even if it has sharp edges. Real ness is even more desirable because itās so rare. I donāt use Facebook.
A gentleman is only rude when he chooses to be. Doesnāt mean you always have to be nice, but you should respond appropriately when youāre not.
Nobody is perfect and everybody needs to be told to shut up from time to time, myself included.
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Itās actually funny comparing humans breeding to cannabis breeding also, it seems we are more interested in what traits we pass along to making plant seeds than human sperm/ovaries 
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Iām getting married in November lol fuxk it why not.been together 17 years and Iāve never been married before itās all new to me
My wife makes more money than me,get the license Oct into the jaws of death November lol
She should get a medal for
Putting up with me so long
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A female of the species came past my work recently and commented on my existence and how short life was and why I was spending it single which is what opened a can of worms in my brain
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Iām hoping weāre going to keep this reasonableā¦
If it turns into some incel melt down I will shut it down hardā¦ Honestly this isnāt the forum for this at all
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First partner: 8 years, ages 15-23; we hated each other by the end. It was a relationship of uber drama as we were kids and still had no freaking idea who we even were. By the very end we both had complete mental breakdowns because of all the stresses involved.
Second partner: 8 years, 24-32; total opposites in personality with enough similarities in interests that it worked. Issue was that there was bad communication. We are still friends, respect each other and wish we knew better and broke-up 2-3 years before we did as it would have been before some mutual emotional damage.
Thirds a charmer, 9+ years, 33-āDeathā; totally different personalities, totally different interests, mutual respect, mutual understanding; YEARS OF MUTUAL WORK TOWARDS THIS GOAL. We would have broken up so many times if we hadnāt learned from all our previous relationships, learned about ourselves, listened to each other, and thusly learned to change for each other based on these mutual reflections.
I wish you the very best but as a highly sensitive male I feel for you 100% about the difficulties of the heart.
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You donāt lol
forever is a womenās scam. there not even hard wired to believe in after the children can wipe there own nose. Life expectancyās are longer and so is forever, too long. forever will make less and less sense to the independent woman with the option to take care of her self. Best thing you can do is eat right exercise so you have more options when they are needed.
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