Nothing feels like rejection by the opposite sex. 
So I guess she just meant to say No but didn’t. Instead she offered several paragraphs worth of advice, including But not limited to Board Games, Lmfao!
We’ve known each other for a long time and it sort a came up way back. So last night I sent her a cryptic text message…No I didn’t ask her out via text, lol.
But I did steer it one direction, didn’t work though. She shot it down quickly, her reply was this…
"I do not know exactly what your question was going to be, I could guess but I hope it’s not what I think it might’ve been. But I guess it could go a couple of ways…
I’ll give you a general response and I’m not sure how it will go,but here it goes…".
Oh Fuc, she is Still Texting me BS to do, god that was stupid AF, why did I do that!?! Lol, never mind it sounds like a lot of baggage and she isn’t the stablest person ATM.
Not sure why I made this thread…Anyways, got a garden to kill off due to little crawly things. 
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Cheer up homie there will be other grows and other gals to be had. Sending magical good luck garden fairies your way
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I say “Thank you for the clarity.” and move on, all the way. No board games and hope, no sympathetic shoulder. I’ll need that shoulder for someone who wants more of what I am bringing.
Rejection is just a bump against someone elses unseen boundary. Have your own and allow them theirs. It should be much simpler than our culture makes it.
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Your right we make this so much harder than it needs to be. I wasn’t asking her to walk down the alse just friends with benefits kind-a thing…And if it got to weird we could just stop.
She is sweet and all so I can’t dog her for anything. And she is trying to let me down as nice as possible, it just sucks is all.
Maybe she knows me to well, lol.
Well thx for the advice and I’ll prob text her back later. Not sure what to say yet, I’ve made things weird between us now.
PS: I haven’t replied to my other thread yet about bugs in the soil. I’m still digesting the lose of months worth of time and for a shortage again. Planning on torching them tonight.
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