On Monday our friend @Solowolf mom passed away unexpectedly. It has been a devastating blow to him. He stayed with his mom to help her and they were extremely close
He is going through a tough time with this and wanted his OG family to know why he has not been on. He will still be doing the preservation and seed runs he planned and members donated to. Just going to be a little bit while he sorts things out himself.
Thanks to @LemonadeJoe for being OK with this post. Was not sure where to post it, but in community seemed like the right place.
Thanks to @Swe-can and @Upstate, who donated the seeds for the runs he plans on doing, for their understanding too.
Sorry if it is wordy. It is tough knowing what to say.
It’s been about 14 months since mine departed and my world is no better still. Anytime I experience peace of mind or comfort I say “thanks, Mom!”
@Solowolf my mother lives with me for the past few years, and it’s not been the easiest. We argue a lot, usually over nonsense, but I don’t know what I would do without her. I can’t imagine your pain, and am truly sorry for your loss. We here for you buddy, when you need us.
I did the same thing, came from TX back to CA to help take care of my dad and we have become closer though I think for him, the “death of person” will come first (Alzheimers) and I am dreading it.
May the love of God and the peace of the Lord Jesus Christ
@Solowolf there’s never enough words to say really, to help you thru this loss. Only thru prayers is my offering to you and your family, you have my deepest condolences, sorry to hear of your losing the greatest gift of all.
@Solowolf, do allow the cherished memories to soothe, however slow initially, the pain. Having experienced your agony multiple times, I wish NOTHING but the very best as you undertake the journey. Stay positive and KNOW the members here are, indeed, here for you. You have my most personal of wishes, Bro. The Fog of Loss WILL be replaced by the Sunshine of Happier Memories. Stay safe and, more important now than ever, be W-E-L-L!!!
@Solowolf my sincere condolences for your loss. I know your pain all to well and there isn’t anything anyone can say or do to help. If you need an ear or anything else we’re all here for you brother. Please don’t do like I did and damn near destroy yourself before you reach out.
Aww that’s horrible news! I’m very sorry to hear that has happened. You have all my thoughts, prayers, and condolences. Wish I could do more but as everyone has already said, we’re here for ya however we can be if you need us to. Take all the time you need.
My condolences my brother
Sending prayers and good thoughts
It’s not an easy one to deal with it’s 10 years here and still not easy
I find if I remember the fun things her memories make me laugh and cry at the same time
Peace
Paps
There are several members who have lost loved ones recently. I wish to express my condolences to @Solowolf and to @Pedro_Bann. There will be some I missed and more to come. Hoping for the best for each of you.
@Solowolf my thoughts and prayers are with you my brother i lost my mom a year ago its not easy. The only advice i can give is take this plant we all love so much that God created for the healing of our mind and body and let it do what it was created for. Heal
Peace
are with you and your family.