Well kind folks here on OG, bad news for me and family I am afraid.
Palliative care plan is in place and he returns home to die. ( 2-8 weeks)
If I am a bit off kilter or any weird remarks for the next few weeks I apologise in advance, I may be quiet or abrupt with people. I am going to be very tired anyway thats for sure burning my candle at both ends of the wick. Doing a lot of traveling back and forth as we live 70 miles away from each other my cousin and I who is only in his 30s bless.
Many thanks to you all, and words can’t describe the appreciation I have for the generosity from @anon58740919.
Over and out on the subject for me now, I am going to deal with what comes, now and next for my family. 
Sincerely my kindest regards to everyone,
Herbie 