My sis is 13 years older than me, decided to have kids in her late 40’s resulting in her chemistry being a mess and no idea of what will happen with her twin girls once they hit puberty as they were SUPER PREMATURE.
On top of all this she chose to follow our mother’s career path, which made our mother’s health get worse and worse as she worked and is the reason I’m not close to my mom… as she was always working… on other peoples kids… as a Principal of elementary schools.
I looked at my parents and went: “okay, do this, but avoid that.” She saw the same thing but mixed up which was healthy and which was toxic 
Still love her though… but it took over 1 year for her to find out that she could have removed her side door by removing the hinge screws so she wouldn’t have to go 10km each way to do her laundry at our parents because her broken washer and drier wouldn’t fit out the opening with the door on.
Bless her… but also I’m worried for our future; she is a vice principle and I hope the kids are learning SOMETHING useful for the physical world versus only the online stuff.
