My brother is 3 years younger than me. when I was 16 we had kind of no relationship besides ‘hello and good day’ till I was like 23 or something. Now he’s living a 100 kms away, also has a family and kids. We’re best friends beside that we not see each other so often. Random calls, funny vids and such are the rule.
Within the time we had basically no relationship he went in the total opposite of what I did. I became a stoner and he became a fighter. He was involved with hells angels and stuff like that. Fortunately He came out unharmed and now all is good.
I remember being very angry at him because one night he was setup by 5-6 guys and they fucked him up real hard, broken jaw and shit. For me it was like karma because he did worse to other people. When my mom wanted MO to go visit him in the hospital I refused. These days I regret it. We talked about it and set everything straight.