And as much joy as we have gotten from that it still took years for us to connect after we knew each other grew. The best vetting is done in person looking each other in the eye. Iāve been on here for a few years now and have seen a lot of bs happen, like it does out here in the world yes but relative anonymity allows for snakes. The one that bites you is the one you donāt see. The very first group buy I participated in was stiffed by a member. For no real reason and it apparently came to nothing for the thief. I canāt help but think if that individual knew he was identified he wouldnāt have done so. Of course it would be nicer if we could expect some degree of ethical behavior in each other from basic human respect but where does that happen? LOL
This is why we canāt have nice things. LOL