Yes you are very right about this. In French it’s tu/vous in Spanish it’s tu/usted so the idea is not totally foreign to me but der die den is something I’m struggling with.
And gender. I made the same complaint about French. Why is a toaster feminine? Fuck if I know. English is not like this.
Ich spreche gut franzosich und ein bisschen Spanish so these things are not totally unusual to me but it is different and a bit difficult.
To an Anglo, German is a bit weird because at first glance you look at a sentence and it looks like you should understand it, but then you double check and it makes no sense
Interesting that you learn Russian in school. French is a hot commodity in Canada because of Quebec but it’s controversial. I went to a French only school for many years. Being bilingual (which I’m not) is a big advantage for things like federal jobs and knowing which poutine you want to order.