If you’re willing to spend more time than money, top watering by hand is the way to go. However, this is a DAILY chore (sometimes even 2 or 3x per day) that can be mitigated with a drip system. Tons of options, FloraFlex is the one I’ve been eyeballing.
Nutrients: my opinion, for the money it doesn’t get any better than General Hydroponics. The trusty 3-part with a couple additives, like CaliMagic and Armor Si, and you’re golden. I recently switched to FloraNova series, simply to use a couple less bottles. You’ll waste more time trying to dissolve solids, than just using a nutrient line that dissolves and mixes easily like GH trio.
Coco itself: for the most part you get what you pay for, but, I’ve always opted for the cheapest I could find that wasn’t compressed bricks. Tupur Royal Gold hella cheap, hella nice stuff & I’ve had fantastic results with it.
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