That’s really tough as I don’t really rank em and there are so many.
One of my favorite to see live is Harry hood
I mean the beginning is kinda tough to listen to if you’re not a fan... but the “part 2” of Harry Hood is just usually such a blissful jam. The structure of the jam of the song is just perfect for Trey to hose you down.
Here’s a list of the “best performances” of it. In the 3.0 phish era my Favorite versions are Berkeley 2010, blossom 2012 (i think), and Madison square garden 2016 (haha this fellow fan who goes to all the shows (mostly) with his dad who is also a big fan became known as “Hood kid” because he was caught on video losing it in a state of bliss during that rendition.
I’ll find the video lol
But you gotta listen to the whole song to understand why he lost it.
But i really have so many favorite songs for different reasons and moods.
But why do you ask @Worcestershire_Farms
You trying to find out what to listen to, to break into their music? Or are you a fellow fan and were just curious.
I would be happy to post a lil playlist of them if you want to hear some stuff I recommend as a first time listener... or I can even give you one of some of the deeper/heavier jams.
Oh yea, you asked for 3
So I’ll give you a list of my favorite jam, softer song, and cover.
Waste or Miss You
Waste - https://youtu.be/sEsEALkP1YY
Miss you (done acoustic at Denver opera house during Prairie Home Companion broadcast.. was a great time. Glad I had gone) https://youtu.be/FKmDslvESaQ?t#5m51s
Crosseyed and Painless (wouldn’t say it’s my favorite cover bc I love them all. But this is a good one)