Your buddy is buying shit air pumps. Ive had my dual diaphragm for 9 years and they still kicking ass.
I still use air pumps cause I like all the turbulence…
Another tip is find a way to elevate your sites.
U can see mt 27gal system has CMUs under them. This makes it so I can get the water level in my control bucket higher since water always wants to level itself. This makes the time between top ups shorter. And allows u to use a bigger pump which generates more power from the waterfall.
My 27gal system I have to throttle the pump with a ball valve because it has a 1000gph pump and it sucks water out hella fast and makes the pump gurgle.
I dont get this issue with mt 12 gal totes and 550gph pump