hey man they look great i’m curious to see how it ends.
as for spider mites I believe that a pepper sauce can solve other things that can help is to use essential oil for example cinnamon, peppermint, rue, etc. But anyway I’ll leave a link here that has a recipe here from Og, maybe it will help.
Edit: I forgot to mention these hermaphrodite males who have there are many controversies on the subject but nothing scientifically proven, in fact I also have no firm opinion on the matter, but what I can say about it is that if possible throws/kills this specimen I say that because if there was anything with a trace of hermi in my things it was a male with pistils that I had.