Your experience sounds just like mine - and I assure you that the high CBD strains are a godsend!
For me, as long as the THC:CBD is around 7%:7% I can be confident that I will have no issues. The CBD can be higher and it doesn’t matter.
Initially it does get you “high”, but it never kicks in too hard because the CBD kicks in and just chills you out. Not in the way a heavy indica chills some people out - it is hard to describe, but you just feel “de-stressed”, but still clear-headed.
It’s also great for aches, pains, migraines, etc.
Having said all this - the White Widow I grew recently is really impressive to me. It is considerably higher in THC and probably low to no CBD, so it gets me high as fuck - but I don’t care. I don’t get that edgy, stressed, anxious, shitty feeling I get from most strong weed. I just giggle and smile and I just don’t give a fuck - walk around Walmart grinning at people I don’t know, which is totally out of character, but again I don’t give a fuck. It doesn’t feel racy, it doesn’t feel mellow, it just makes me happy and carefree.
So CBD is awesome, but there is something else going on with certain strains that I haven’t figured out yet, but there are some very good theories in this thread and I think you all are on to something!.