Shit…I just woke up today to breakfast in bed, with a packed bong for desert. Yes…I love my wife and marriage 
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God damn, she have a sister? Lol
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God has blessed me with my soulmate. We’ve been together for 20 years married for 10. And not to try and make it seem as tho it was all smoove sailing, we had our ups and downs. But the main thing I can offer as advise is, be true to yourself. No one is in your head, or knows exactly what you’re thinking, let alone how you’re feeling but you. If you have your doubts, that’s your inner true self trying to spare you.
I’ve always been open to my lil lady, no matter what, she’s very supportive always has been. Her strength to love me for my true me is why I love and cherish her. I’m a hard pill to swallow,so to speak, not an ugly mutha fuka, just mean and hard to deal with, so she gets all the accolades.
Said all that to say, if you ain’t feeling it from the beginning, don’t waste both of yalls time. It’ll only make it worse in the end.
Hang in there buddy, your holy spirit will take you to better days, just follow the truth.
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Ugh, I don’t miss it.
13 years with someone who as I later learned is borderline personality disorder + narcissistic tendencies.
Things were ok when I was her best friend, then woke up one morning to being her worst enemy.
Lost literally everything, including my mind.
It was over a quarter million in lawyer fees to half ass make her go away and protect the apprentice. Pretty sure his psychologist costs will surpass the lawyer fees, that said he’s turning out to be super resilient, and has 0 tolerance for bullshit. One of our professionals was here a few weeks back, his mom called, within 5 minutes - “mom if you’re not going to let me speak I’m hanging up”
FYI, still absolutely worth it.
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No, no she does not brother…sorry 
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Kidding of course, my girl is pretty great… mostly haha
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Sounds shitty
My wife is super cool she don’t smoke weed,but she did buy me 2 grow tents and lights to get
Me started lol
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My wife is from Manila 
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Welcome to the community @anon98660487. Funny how you get here and go straight to a " my girlfriend is bitchin " thread.
Very low on the drama scale here, once you look around, it’s lots of weed shit and tons of helpful peeps. Enjoy your stay and show your grow, we’d love to see it.
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My wife don’t bitch about
Me growing weed I have a 32-32-6ft tent in our bedroom 
She knows a man needs a hobby
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I got married to my wife in 1982 
she loves that I grow and she smokes like a train
which is fine with me
but if she would trim 
she would be gold
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This is a great community!! Im glad Cervantes mentioned it in his book… man i never knew how much I missed growing till I started again!! . Jesus Ive been out of grow scene Since 1990! Now that I can legally grow and smoke again since 2018 , I bought Cervantes books and have learned alot … Highly recommend Seedmans wed site!!! Good god they have like endless breeders on there and too many strains to count!!! Dutch Passion has awesome genetics!!! , Ive been buying RSC landrace strains lately. I cant wait to get my own place and set up my indoor year round grow tent!!! Ive missed alot in all those years especially now they have Auto flowering strains grew Cinderella Jack , Ultimate from Dutch Passion and Green Poison XL from Sweet Seeds ( I think). Started em inside and put em outdoors , not to big on yield but man only growing for myself. Im glad alot of you know what its like to have a GF like mine!!!
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My wife is 4’ 7" and when she wants to hit she jumps up in the air and bam. Shit that little hand hurts like hell and I got a freeken rock head
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When my wife and I met, at a friends house, she was working part time for him. He and I knew each other forever. He is a pot head, I’ve been one since 1971.
We all had a great time just talking and smoking weed.
I took notice she was packing the bowl pretty quickly after a session, my kind of girl.
What was great, neither of us wanted or were seeking a committed relationship. So for the next 10 years we built a life together. Married after 10 years, and it’s been 10 since we got married.
Right after we met, I had to go over seas to work. While gone her previous cancer came back, very small, but there were the cells.
I had never turned on a computer, zero skills, always a mechanical type guy.
The information building started, reading sometimes 10+ hours a day. Once I had all this info on cancer and weed and had a understanding of tincture/oil making, then I decided to learn growing for meds.
This journey started in 1999, now we both are saturated cannabeings, helping family, friends and pets when ever we can.
Our respect for each other has grown very strong over the years so, my wife will never endanger our grow. I’m the only care giver to the plants, she asks frequently if I need help, but it’s my passion, it’s something I love to do, it’s my Green Moonshine, I get so up lifted each day I work them. So for us, it would be like self harm to kill our grow.
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My first wife stopped smoking before we met but had no issues with me smoking and even put up with me growing in our bedroom, and that was before I had a tent, which meant we had to sleep in the living room. My 2nd wife was ok with me smoking at first, but we never lived anywhere I could grow weed (indoors), though I did grow outdoors and also grew shrooms indoors for a short while. Eventually she grew tired of the smoking and we divorced, and my current gf and I live together in a legal state (rec and med), and she has no issues with me smoking or growing, though she has little interest in the garden - it’s my thing not hers and she knows that I medicate in lieu of a laundry list of meds they prescribe to me. I am generous with smoke for her friends and family, which she appreciates.
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My wife smoke’s more then me. Let me just say I smoke like a tire fire. Mine loves to complain about how much time I spend in the grow room…
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But that’s time you could be spending on her 
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Keep em hungry .
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I’m sorry to hear that Coma been married 41 years cant say any of them has been as bad as some of these posts on here.
We finished growing each other up, preg during high school.
I can honestly say “She’s my best friend”
Fish together used to bow hunt together shoot in 3-D shoots together.
Christ as I look back its been all me, she asked me to do one thing and I turned into an ass, go to a wedding with her in Florida.
And I was a dick still apologizing to this day.
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I would add that if your partner spends more time bitching than having fun with you, it might be time for a different partner or no partner at all. Don’t live in misery either. I know the perfect woman but she’s already married to me. 
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