My wife has liver failure,. I dont know what to do

Thanks all wow she really let loose on the post. :heart: and happiness :blush:

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7.9% plus $.30 cents per donation is what GoFundMe gets. So for instance if you had 100 people donate $100.00 each that would be $10k. GFM s cut would be $790.00 + $30 leaving you with $9180.00

Hope this information is helpful.

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Thank you i appreciate the information. :pray:

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That’s really good information to know! Thank you, @LoveDaAutos! :+1:

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@mota thank you ever so kindly. Your donation is really going to go to good use.

@BudWhisperer we appreciate your donation as well. Thank you. It warms our hearts knowing we have the community behind us.

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Summing it up, i had a minor heart attack. Now I am on blood pressure heart rate monitor, pulse/oxygen. Again extremely sorry for the lenghthy message. My adhd has me all over. I will answer any questions, so please ask me questions you may have. I appreciate it. Please tag me! :smiley:

Thank you all for taking the time to read about our situation.

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Hard outta likes, as usual.

You are both so welcome. I have an admission, or maybe not really an admission to those who know me. I’m lazy. I’ve always been a person who prefers the easy way. And honestly, I’ve also been a lucky person. Helping you and others with a little donation is one of the ways I can treat others the way I would like to be treated if our positions were reversed.

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I have some :heart: for you brother.

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Hang in there @Pawsfodocaws and @Mrs.Paws. I’m glad your figuring things out but I am sorry your having to go through it. You both are amazing people and it hurts me to see you navigate the madness that is the American health care system. Know you have my empathy, sympathy and hippie prayers. I enjoyed reading your update blocks! Rambling adhd is something I am fluent in myself! :laughing:
It sucks having a litany of things wrong with you and to be told its all in your head or it doesn’t work like that, your not alone and I hope they actually listen. I was going to say something else but the ghost train haze is kicking in and I forgot. :v: :green_heart:

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Thanks bud, its hard sometimes but she has a ton of good info. She is going to start getting on her profile and using it more. She is going to learn how to navigate and use the site more than before. She wanted me to let you all know that @Mrs.Paws will be more active around here. Should be nice. Thanks for understanding the adhd stuff too, i try and i understand its fine. I just have to be patient. Also you relate which im sure many people do as well. Anywho thank you :blush:

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I’m not a doctor, don’t claim to be or have medical experience but everything you have mentioned about your health issues sound extremely similar to my wife’s father, he’s had lifelong health issues, and every few years seam to change the diagnosis. He also had liver issues last summer and was hospitalized and had extreme weight/ muscle loss. It turns out he has a rare disease that’s why they had such a hard time figuring it out but said it’s called IGG4. He’s been treated for the last year and has definitely been making progress since then.
Hopefully they can give you a definite diagnose and get you on the road to recovery. We are all praying for you guys.

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@Kushking902 :100: possible! At this point I am still putting my medical mystery together from before birth to now! And wow 37 years of medical records, and then mystery illness on top… ugh! At least this month has bee. The most progress i have made in all these years… well worth the fight since the 12th i have gotten a new pcp, lots gone through but tons of med recs to go! Referral for cardiologist to get holter monitor, dermatologist for this ongoing rash that now appears to be bleeding under/through skin… but when seeing this new reffering dr. Today about getting all new referrals… she wrote it for a mass on left posterior neck… was told lymph node earlier, maybe month ago, also same lump mid right thigh. Then there is the abdominal pain that hasn’t really missed a spot to not reference but main pain i was assuming kidney and renal artery? Because of the random flares of pain became so severe that i have been clenching right abdomen for literally over 4 months possibly longer but I like to round down instead of up… now along with feeling every bone on my skeleton that I have never seen before, my spine is clearly more exposed than ever but after long time of pain recently started asking if i had a bruise and not for multiple days until Mr. Paws finally said he saw an actual bruise where I had been feeling the pain. Although back in April and basically until the heart attack happened i didn’t realize that my previous TIA scare was most likely a smaller episode of heart attack or leading up to this one Although i had a fall due to blood pressure issues after what i now think then was tia really was a previous heart attack. I always expected my migraine issue would progress to stroke! anyways along lumbar area along spine now lumped and bruised. So stiff and sore I can barely use the restroom without pain or legs going numb… just laying down or just sitting one position for too long makes me lock up so stiff it’s almost unbearable! Although by my age when no one believes you, you bear the unbearable until, well it kills you or just adjust your plan and keep moving. Referral to GI specialist to see what or should I say how many organs now how damage! And then after all these things or Monday might be lucky enough to make huge progress…

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Another very possible cause! I love this feedback my medical knowledge ends before any certificate of completion! So I am running out of possible causes that may not mean worst case senerio.

Can you get to see a functional doctor who will think outside of the box a bit more? Have you been tested for antibodies? A lot of what you describe could be autoimmune based, in particular your recently deteriorating vision. I have seen cases of this increasing exponentially over the last couple of years unfortunately. Do you take any supplements? I hope you can get some answers soon and get to the root cause and recover.

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I am working to see a rheumatologist before the symptoms got extreme. The last month has been the most rapid decline ever and sadly an autoimmune issue is looking like the better of most other options especially with the latest ive seen just sonce my last post here… and could have had kidney issues starting just based on the slight abnormalities that were seen dec 3rd when the major malpractice began when loosing my memory after an episode similar to this!

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My heart truly goes out to you 2… as soon as i saw paws mention this i jumped to callouts to the appropriate people for a way to help.

We just got done with johnny and are ready to tackle this as well…

Who knew… when we all decided to smoke weed when we were younger that we would universally come together from all over, and be the family of stoners we have always been throughout life… to achieve great things and overcome even more!!

I am 100 percent stoked to see this rocketship of compassion lift off :raised_hands:

I cant imagine going through what you are dealing with… and i truly hope there is 100 percent resolve for anything going on.

We are going to do our very best that you can count on @Pawsfodocaws and @Mrs.Paws … stay positive…

1 love 1 family :hugs:

:green_heart: :potted_plant: :seedling: :herb:

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Are you signed up for in home supportive services for your mother?
If you’re in california they’ll pay you a few hundred to a couple thousand.

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Thanks for all your help starting this up. We appreciate og. :pray: @Mrs.Paws and I are happy to have people here we are able to call family. Overgrow the world!.

:heart: s all around!

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Did you have a donation you wanted to make? I can invite you to the donor PM if you like?

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I would like an invite, @DougDawson please.

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