Chat room (let's chat!) šŸ’¬ (Part 2)

lol Things and situations change, go up-n-down, come-n-go. But, memories and love/family are whatā€™s important. Iā€™ve learned that much in all these years ā€¦ and ya damned sure canā€™t take it with you!
Back 30+ years ago, when I was pulling in 250k-500k/year. With all that ā€˜material stuffā€™ I was up and gone before sunrise and not get home until our 3 sons were already in bed. This was 7 days a week. i had 2 heart attacks in 5 years. The doc looked at me and saidā€™ do you want to be rich in life or rich in stuffā€™? It was a wake up callā€¦ I sold everything and slowed down to enjoy my life with the wife and sonsā€¦and ya know what? i wouldnā€™t change what Iā€™ve had since then for anything!!

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Got a house roughly $350k, the foundation is sinking into the ground. I built a sunroom of it and it has an double attached garage which all has to be lifted at the same time and the basement blown away, piles put down and it re-poured as well as under the the garage. Estimate of about $150k to do the work. Been debt free for years but had to take early retirement because of a condition I picked up due to work. A couple of bad choices, buying the house and taking the job, otherwise I would have been doing pretty good. So there!

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I dont let anything stress me .
I was looking at 20 yr sentence as a 13 half yr old
Did 4.5 of it
After that Iā€™ve started almost everyday in the gym 2 hrs then we go make money :moneybag:
Sorry about those Heart Attacks man I wish thst on No man.
Lost my beautiful 28 yr old daughter to the drug lifestyle 2019 Nov so I give an give in life I care nothing about bieng first just nice.

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That right there is pricelessā€¦ Worth more than the rest of the items being mentioned, combined!

Actual possessions are anchors. When I lived on the island of Utila I brought 3 bags. Didnā€™t want for, or need, anything more. Mind you, 1 of those bags was scuba gear, 1 was clothing and personal, 1 was techy toys like my underwater cameras, hard drives and my laptop. But for the time I spent on that island? STILL think of them as my absolutely most happiest months of my life. Mind you, Utila is almost off the grid island living in a third world country. But I didnā€™t miss a thing. about the worst of it is the weed is shit, but its so cheap, you smoke it instead of cigs. That was the first place I ever lit up a joint at a restaurant after eating a meal, while still at my table. LOL.

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When I slowed my ass down, I had so much fun helping to raise our 3 sons. The older they got, the more fun we had too! This was over 30 yrs ago mind you, they are 36, 35, 34 now and weā€™re all still very close. And oh the memories weā€™ve built!
When I had 35-40 guys working on 5-10 jobsites, that in itself was enough to bring on a heart attack! lol
That 1/4 mil was after payroll, etc lol but then all that stuff and taxes on all that stuff ate it up, to make me work harder, to make more, for ā€˜the manā€™ take!

I damned sure donā€™t miss it!

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My Son an I spent from 1998 to 2008 racing Mx All Across the country
While the youngest played 3 sports an raced bicycles as a single parent .
Did not even get my Dl till 5 yrs ago at 44 lol
I own so much but not 1 things in my name.
Not my bike not my cars ,trucks. Vett houses lol
I paid all my child support walking in the office lol I beg for change lol

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Reminds me of this story:

The Story of the Mexican Fisherman - Be More with Less

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does your boat look like this lol

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Man you got it all wrong cuz! The banner should say ā€˜F all politiciansā€™!

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When its a choice of the lesser of two evils, is it really a choice then? Thats been my problem with politics for yearsā€¦

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ā€œBut, Iā€™ve also got my best friend-the woman of my dreams, and together weā€™re living our dreams.ā€

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Iā€™ve talked to the rest of NJ and we would appreciate it yes.

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They have only one goal in office, and it sure ainā€™t ā€˜to serve the peopleā€™! Itā€™s to see which one can line their pockets the best, at the expense of the people!

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Hmmā€¦ Considering you probably only went to Lakewood and knocked on a few doors, that really doesnā€™t count. They want you to leave as well!

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Turd sandwich is the obvious choice. Giant douche is a douche!

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They all.lie an serve themselves

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I still like the ā€œGiant Meteor 2020ā€ bumper stickersā€¦

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I voted for Anarchy. Iā€™m pretty sure I won. :stuck_out_tongue:

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Isnā€™t that what that old question is all about cuz? ā€œhow do you know when a politician is telling a lieā€? when their mouth is open/movingā€¦

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Talk about politics, I have a horse trail to clear or I get a fine even tho its on city property
Believe thst shot

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