Sounds good. 24 hours straight of any one topic is bound to run into a little disagreement; all I was saying is that I disagree with that philosophy. Keeping other people happy is not guaranteed to keep you happy. Thatās called a codependent relationship, and theyāre generally considered to be bad.
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lol I appreciate your concern cuz really. But neither of us was in any āargumentā, that I could seeā¦ simply different points of view on lifeā¦in āgeneralā pardon my play on words lol
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Not entirely different points of viewā¦ Iād just phrase it a little bit differently. āIf youāre happy, youāre happyā¦ unless your wife is unhappy, in which case sheās gonna make damn sure youāre unhappy too,ā seems a little more accurate to me. 
And to clarify, thatās not a sexist or bitter thing; if Iām in a relationship with someone and Iām unhappy, I tend to make them miserable too. Regardless of whatās between my legs.
@Cormoran I think I couldāve used a better word to describe your post than ābitterāā¦perhaps āpessimisticā whereas, Iām āoptimisticā lol Those two mindsets are almost always doomed to dispute each other.
Which doesnāt mean we hate each other lol I like ya and have respect for you and your ideas/feelings/thoughts
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Just being somebody standing back watching, depending on the personalities involved felt it could have possibly gone further south. But you guys both seem quite level-headed and there was obviously no cause for concern. Iāve always been a peacemaker, i come by it honestly being sensitive and growing up in a house where people argued a lot
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Ouch cuz, well hereās to a happier life for you than what you say was your childhood life. That wouldnāt be a good environment for any sensitive person
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Itās all good, they had their issues just like I have mine. Everybody has got some shit that needs dealt with in life
oh, @BigMike55 in answer to your question posted earlier. Cuz, Iām about as good as itāll get for me I reckon. Youāre aware of my situation, and i donāt just have the time, or often the energy, to be here tokin n jokin as I used to. But thnx for asking after me cuz!
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Certainly hope you and Miss Rose are having some good days mixed in with the shitty ones.
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Thnx cuz, usually do manage to have some good
Just keep punching Apollo 
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Terrible day, my other cat dawned the day suffering from cancer, I think itās already terminal phase, she was in so much pain that she ran away. And strangely she still hasnāt come back at this time of day, I couldnāt sleep all night and now I think she died
The cancer started a tree years ago the several phase, , in the skin by sun radiation , shes albine.
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That sucks man, sorry to hear that.
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My heart to yours @BERZERK ; we have feral cats that we are very close to because we are allergic to cats and canāt have them in the house.
Big hugs to you and yours.
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Sorry to hear that.
Older cats will go away to die.
Sorry 
truly
Losing a pet is terrible.
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Yeah. one of my good friends indoor/outdoor cat went missing in spring. They found him under the shed, his favorite stalking spotā¦ he knew it was his time and being a 1/2 outdoor cat went to laydown in his favorite spot to take his final rest 
He was 18 so he had a fantastic and full life. 
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That is my experience
They always seem to go to someplace they liked.
In a small way it makes me feel better
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thanks for the empathy at this moment comrades. and what a bad moment to lose an animal that lives so close and that doesnāt hurt us at all.the name of that cat is Seda(rolling paper in portuguese) that cat was special to me. if shes dont come back till 1 pm i ll go to the street try to find him.
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I was the second owner of him.
Seda(rolling paper) has chosen me to be your owner , she go away of his house a couple of years ago , and stay in my area 1 month , and shes never go away after that. Shes sleep with me in my room all the days a 1 year.
God dam dude.
Cancer is fucked up
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