Been there… i just dont associate with them once screwed over.
A past experience of mine with two brothers…
I knew a friend of a friend who dropped off a clone when i expressed interest in growing my own, didnt know he grew at the time. First harvest i gifted a bag to him and his brother. Second harvest the brother stops by thinking he’s gonna hand pick his buds… he ended up not getting shit but a boot off my property. My debt was paid and i’m not the type to be intimidated. The clone did not come from him… i owed him nothing. I was never gifted a single bud during my dry time.
Later and against my better judgement the 3 of us decide to pool our trim for a hash run. It’s scheduled for a friday afternoon… i arrive and find that the two ran the material on thursday… well most of it… including mine. We start to do what’s left… i dump a bag of trim to see stepped on cigarette butt’s. I drop the bag, wipe my hands of the situation and tell him im out of the arrangement. They ran my primo trim and i get shit swept off the fucking floor.
Then i dont hear from the friend for about a year, found out he got busted. He never gave me a heads up. During that time he learns his brother told his neighbor that he was growing the best weed around… so they waited till they got someone leaving his place carrying and had her flip. Again… never a heads up to me.
He comes to me looking to catch a buzz and buy a bag. Told him i stopped when i heard through the grapevine his experience, and asked why i didnt get notice. He never could answer that, but told him that he didnt have my back and i wont have his.
Some more time goes by and we run into each other again, he apologised and we started out slow just BS’n. Eventually i invited him over to smoke a bit. He expressed interest in growing again so i gave him 150 beans with the agreement that i get a bag come fall. Last fall… i never got a thing.
He stopped by once again looking to catch a buzz… sorry, aint got any and dont forsee any in the future. Fuck off…
The longer i grow, the more i appreciate my dog.