I’m with @Esrgood4u on this one. Gotta look after number one first. We have to be able to step back and recognize when we’re beating our head against a brick wall, that that behavior hurts, and it’s time to say “no more!”
I’m sorry to hear about you and your brother, but clearly you’re the one with a life. 
I’m not so much done. I’m more waiting for the day I can use what they both did to me to my advantage. I’m a total asshole but an asshole that knows right from wrong. When the time comes what they have did will come back to haunt them.
I think you answered yourself, childhood stuff can linger a long time and likes to hide under the surface…
I have an older sister, not much more in common but our parents, but we get along the one or two times a year we meet, dad is taking up most of the space most of the time anyway so whatever. 
Also people have all kinds of expectations of us, that have nothing to do with us…
Be nice and don’t talk too much has been a strategy that worked well for me.
Nope, as I said it’s not just me.
Also she stole $60 off me when I was 15 so I’m going to linger over that betrayal forever.
Probably wise but this is not me.
Not sure what you were thinking, putting an ex-alcoholic in a bar…
Right on don’t get mad get even. Exactly ehst I am doing to my siblings!
yes you can onlydo so much and i lost count of how many times ive tried to help.im all out of give a fucks. and as far as putting an ex alkie in a bar i was a heavy drinker back in the day and since those dayz i have owned and operated several bars
@Esrgood4u said “i love you to bits but your an asshole” of me & I immediately smiled inside because my sister(only sibling) said the same thing. 
I think mom said that too… 
@Foreigner - I too was the older abuser & protector of sistren. It’s all good, they’re tougher for it. 
Until they learn how to disable any creature with testes, then things change. 
She hook kicked me in the kidneys when we were kids & my dad laughed along with her as I lay on the ground wondering if I needed an ambulance.
Back when I was dating I noticed I had an interest in women who were the eldest sibling in their family
My younger siblings figured out they could start shit and blame me at an early age.
Bro. It takes one to know one is the best explanation I can give for my statement. I freely admit I’m a total c#nt but my excuse is I’ve been driven to being the way I am. I still love you though buddy 
No hard feelings! None!
am trying to make a joke about the dane-law & pillaging the English but it ain’t happening 
My brother is 3 years younger than me. when I was 16 we had kind of no relationship besides ‘hello and good day’ till I was like 23 or something. Now he’s living a 100 kms away, also has a family and kids. We’re best friends beside that we not see each other so often. Random calls, funny vids and such are the rule.
Within the time we had basically no relationship he went in the total opposite of what I did. I became a stoner and he became a fighter. He was involved with hells angels and stuff like that. Fortunately He came out unharmed and now all is good.
I remember being very angry at him because one night he was setup by 5-6 guys and they fucked him up real hard, broken jaw and shit. For me it was like karma because he did worse to other people. When my mom wanted MO to go visit him in the hospital I refused. These days I regret it. We talked about it and set everything straight.
I had 4 sisters and 3 brothers. I got along well with all of them, some better than others. A few were real assholes and I didn’t hide the fact I thought that. I was the youngest as they are now all dead as are my parents.
No matter what you think of your siblings, cherish the time you have with them as that can all change in a heartbeat.