Anybody ever notice strains that help with anger?

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Treadmill, Sex, Hiking, Eating Right - Check out this lecture series by Robert Sopolsky on Human Behavioral Biology. Very interesting stuff…

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL848F2368C90DDC3D

I found brazillian jiujitsu can also be a good outlet.

Cookies strains can affect mood in long term heavy usage. Ice Cream Cake makes me hella angry if I do it all the time. If I do it once in awhile though it does not.

As far as strains that help? A bunch of central american strains are great for mood. Goji OG is great for that. Nepalese… Blueberry. Skunk. So many! Though the high THC low other things strains can have a depressing affect over time.

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Imagine,(if you will) a scene where you drive into the parking lot of your local store.A car is backing out right up front,you wait patiently and as soon as they are clear,a fancy car comes swooping in from the other side.A sharp dressed joker jumps out grinning and gives you the finger with his tongue out.Burns don’t it? Now imagine pulling in and seeing what looks like an empty spot,only when you get there, there is a cow laying there.In that spot chewing it’s cud.Feels different right? When you realize there is no difference between the two scenarios ,you will start to part ways with the reactionary anger.Either way ,you need to find another parking spot ! Good Luck and may you not be distracted by anger,from finding a good spot in life. HP (when I learned this and people would do stupid things,I would always give a big MOOO!)

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Hmmm
I think the mushrooms, among other things, helped me…
As it seems to me, I would rather see things already interpreted, passed through glasses smeared with life. Interpreted reality comes to the fucked up mind for further reinterpretation… Quite flameable

I don’t believe that my outbursts of anger were so dramatic. I would say that my general level of sharpness has always been high. And a simple jump would be disastrous
I think that focusing on resolving anger separately from the substrate from which it emerges is pointless. It can be hidden with medication, maybe some weed, but…

Maybe the main difference between me before and me now is - less me :slight_smile:
My wife tells me that sometimes it borders on idiocy. Not having much expectations of yourself and others, not having opinions and attitudes about many things…
But she prefers me as an idiot. And children too

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I got to add another strain, that offers us, anyway, a very calming, warm feeling, Celia Bx1, TurnSpit Genetics.
We have been sampling this one a day or 2 now.
Yesterday, wifey has been helping her older aunty, doc appointments, groceries, pays her bills, yadayadayada.
Yesterday, she comes home mad as hornet, most pissed, I’ve ever seen her!
Terrible day, aunty is full of woes, drivers cutting her off in traffic, but as soon as I see her, I go get the bag of Celia buds, and they have zero cure time, as I just cut and prepped it.

She is in BEAST mode, tell/yelling her day, not at me, but to the universe at large.
But I never see this side of her! Full on melt down is about to happen, and I’m frantically rolling a PHATTY up with Celia, I lit that joint and handed it to her, she takes a quick pull on it, so she can spew more about a given transgression from her day, and sort of thrusts it back to me. I shake my head no, and say hit that again, and hold that hit!
She glares, but does just that, I take a hit, and hands it back, she really pulls on it this time, (talking has stopped) deep inhale, and hold…passes me the joint, exhales and burst out laughing! Belly laughs! Another passing of the joint!
Then almost sort a WestWorld like, she restarts, telling more of her day, without being all pissed off!!
Takes a hit and looks at the joint and sayes, damn that tastes good! WOW, I really feel good!
I said, well Thank Celia for that!
Honestly, it was a space of 5-10 minutes, rage to sage!

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LOL I love that! I’ll forsure have to look into this one and it’s genetics!!

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Headband Haze is a nice happy strain for me.

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blunt after blunt after blunt… you get the idea. Hard to be angry when your real stoned.

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now that sounds like some medicine i need to keep in the rotation. where would one acquire some seeds for this? i would search for it but have to go this morning.

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had some chiesel the other day. i get a lot of looks from people so in terms of something that creates that forcefield that blocks your brain from reacting to their body language or even just them straight up talking shit it gets a good test and passed with flying colors. was like they were in slow motion and dumb and my brain was working much more efficiently while providing this warm blanket calm feeling. im not sure i could really pinpoint that specific effect in any cheese hybrids i had back in the day, but the blue cheese was certainly a calming indica leaner buzz.
i think selection outside of the big legal farms is influenced more by local culture than any type of purist stuff that people will cling to online and i want whatever theyre smoking in north west uk, because i deal with people who are like the american version of stuck up londoners lol.

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For your kids is the best reason to change. Took me a bit longer to realize that the way my father raised me (my mother is a non- factor) was fucked up, and I was doing it to my kid. Massive realization that anger and violence at home lead to distrust, contention, and animosity that just gets buried and festers. Then one day something trips the breaker and your kid is so scared of you that they lose the implicit trust that parents and children should always have. I was able to repair the damage, and my son and I have never been closer. He’s almost 21 now and voluntarily visits. I only go see my dad when something goes wrong.

For me all weed helps with the anger. Some strains more than others, but all help me. Best thing I’ve ever done for my relationship with my son is realize how much my dad fucked me up.

And to quote my wife
“The only hope we have for the future, is that we fuck up our kids, less than we were fucked up.”

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i realized that when my son flinched at me once when i went to give him a hug at age 4. no more spanking, not even the little taps that we had done up until then. from then on it was the thinking position, the front leaning rest if you were in the army. no time out for him. he knew not to move until i said ‘recover’, not anything else. i did grass drills once for something and had the cops called on me. it was about 48 degrees and his lips were turning blue. it was like the scene in “an officer and a gentleman” with the hose and the mudhole. the cops ended up getting onto him a little and left. he still stays overnight with me sometimes, we are tight. going on a job with him as soon as this bowl is gone.

edit: he told me basic training in the army was a breeze compared to growing up with me. i think that’s a good thing…

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I remember that flinch, it was heart breaking, and never again. Long discussions, wall sits, and only once did i have to break out “The Dictionary Cross”, arms parallel to the ground (forward or to the side didn’t matter, worked better than spanking) holding a dictionary(even a small book works after a minute). I’m so glad I changed.

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I’m sure Syrup will make more of the Celia Bx1 since I’m pretty sure I got one of the last grips he had to offer.
We love it so much I was in trim jail all day yesterday, breaking down 4 of them, and I have another flower area, that has 4 more, this week. Got a few more HB’s cooking also. Packing the freezer full in Food Saver bags.
Rolling up a bit of Celia Bx1 with some of Jaws, Hawaiian Bud, instant holiday vibe for us!!
No matter how badly our day goes, these ladies bring us up, allowing some laughter to melt off some of the harsh vibes of the day.
Mullumbimby Maddness always generates a smiling buzz for us also.
I’m also falling in love with Tai Chi.
I got lots of clones of each, to ground hog a bunch of it.

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man, my little arsehole got expelled, not just suspended, from two different counties in wv. he went to one of the worst high schools in the state and got expelled basically for nothing. i remember the shit we used to do and his is nothing compared to that. had a chevette burning rubber in the hallway once type of shit. he did graduate though, barely. got accepted to fairmont state too, so there is that. he’ll be fine, just needs some guidance.

@webeblzr let me know if you hear of some coming along if you don’t mind. i should have plenty to trade in the next few months, and for shit like you described i’ll gladly pay for. that’s like the original flo that i have a line on and am just waiting to get some spare cash.

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I hear you with the anger. After growing up in a miserable fucked up home, then running away to the military, and getting married then divorced real young, and having low self esteem etc… I had rage and anger for days. I would explode on strangers all the time. Some ugly shit… and fights too.

Getting therapy really helps. Also some heavy trips with mushrooms really let me see myself, and let go of stuff. I strongly recommend shrooms.

I’ve also learned to have empathy for other people. Everyone is going through serious shit all the time. And sometimes, when someone in public is acting like an ass… it’s because their stress and pain is making them act out. I’ve learned to take a breath, and wish them well with whatever they’re dealing with.

Seriously, sometimes people just need a smile, a laugh, a fucking hug.

Being human is fucking hard, every single minute of every day. And the stress warps us in ugly ways.

Heavy, heavy exercise also helps calm the brain. Like running 8 miles, going to a spin class, martial arts, trying to do 300 pushups in a day. Swimming for an hour.

But really, therapy. More of us men need lots of it. Don’t feel ashamed. You’re already on a good path cause you are recognizing it and the problems it has caused, and you want to set a good example for your son

I wish you well brother :peace_symbol::+1::heart:

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I am not my thoughts.
I am not my emotions.
I am not my body.

I am the space in which I witness these temporary things.

Check out Alan Watts and Eckhart Tolle.
They have been tremendous help for me.
Read the Tao Te Ching.

Also watch The Big Lebowski, get yer dude on.

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Do not feed on the spectres of books ,or information. Take all things, and filter them through yourself. These are the words of Simon Wilder.

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