I got bitten by a tick and got Lyme’s disease, I went at it the natural route. When I made that choice, my ex told me she wouldn’t take care of me if I got sick.
The relationship took some time to come to a definitive halt, but that singular remark shattered any belief I held that that relationship would stand the test of time.
I think she always knew I would never think of quitting weed even with kids in the picture, and when we had our son she suddenly turned on me and decided it was time for us to quit weed. I did not agree.
She didn’t accept that, and that led to a time of struggle that was probably not healthy for either of us. Naturally that was the end of the relationship.
We’re on pretty good terms even though we’ve got a very different view on drugs and on herbal freedom. Our son knows that and will know where to turn with whatever problems he might endure in life, or for whatever lessons he might want to strike up. I’m currently growing a plant he pollinated. He wants to grow a seed that comes from it.
Let’s not tell mommy.
Oh, and I’m happily married with the mother of my second son now, she knows of the grows, she’s happy to ingest some shrooms or edibles and have a puff 2 to 4 times each year and is a lovely woman. We are very happy together.
We met on Tinder, and through a glitch in the system I swiped away and Tinder swiped her the other side. I never planned on telling her, but then on our first vacation together, she confessed the same had happened on her phone.
I like Arizer Air or anything from S&B (the crafty, mighty, plenty etc), if you like the sensation of smoking then a Dynavap (all of the aforementioned are much better than any Pax bullsh…)
Edit: LOL i had not read that. Damn, man… that is intense and extreme. best alternative I find is dynavap, or grab a change of clothes when you go out to smoke your joint,so you come in with fresh new clothes that dont smell. I used to do that when I started smoking cigarettes when I was a teen so my parents wouldnt notice (i would also rub my fingers and mouth with toothpaste).
I stink 24 7 mine doesn’t complain smoking smell is nothing . spend a night trimming and smell the fragrance I guess married 40 plus years she’s gotten used to me .
I would use a pipe and some mints afterwards. My wife used to hate me smelling like cigarettes so I quit. She smokes joints with me so we’re good there. She’s not giving ultimatums after 28 years of marriage. Now if I can convince her we need a tent or two in the basement.
If she’s giving you ultimatums like that, I’m not sure you can save your marriage. I know that, when I was at the point of ultimatums with my ex, it was because I was already ready to leave her. She’d changed, and I’d changed, and one way or another we weren’t good for each other anymore because we fundamentally wanted different things from life. I’m not gonna stop you from trying, but consider how many knots you’re willing to tie yourself in to save the relationship, if it’s what’s forcing you to tie yourself in knots.
Here’s a trick I learned from trial an error. It’s sort of complicated but I think it actually works.
After smoking, go to the bathroom and wash your face with something like Irish Spring or some equally strong scented soap. Make a few snorts to clear your nose of smells. Wash hands good and towel off and give it a try.
The fragrance from the soap can powerful. Plus, you are washing a lot of the smell molecules off, too. She may smell the fresh soap smell before the pot.
Plus, brush the teeth at the same time for the deluxe wash.
Told you it was complicated. Good luck. Sure need the wifey.
Your bad. I’ll send you some. Lol. Mine got mad and let’s say it wasn’t good. I don’t fight with my wife anymore. I don’t say shit to her. It yes and yes.
That’s a euphemistic, long-time-married man’s way of saying “keep the wife happy or she’ll make your life miserable,” though. Why even bother, at that point?
I’m glad you have found cannabis but unfortunate about the wife’s reaction to the smell…I’d look into edibles or possibly vape style cartridges…maybe dabs
No matter the outcome of your cannabis consumption keep at it my friend…the alternative is not a good one!
Haha some funny comments from ppl who are both married and not. I’m married. Compromise is everything. Be honest with her and explain that this helps you cope with your pain. Try to
Respect your wife by smoking at times when it doesn’t affect her. Try a dry herb vape as many have mentioned. I suggested trying to move toward edibles and tictures. No smoke smell! Leave the joints for special occasions when you’re not together. This might be a hard sacrifice but sometimes life hands us tough choices. You’re wife vs joints. To some this is an easy decision, to others, not so much.
A lot of the whore ads say 420 friendly. If not I got to leave it alone. Seems like the sort of thing one discusses before getting married? I have never been married and studied under Al Bundy.
I haven’t tried it, so I have no idea. But I read that water curing weed removes the smell. It leaches out the terpenes I guess? The pictures I saw made the weed look like shit, but maybe it’ll help you. I thought about trying it for the guys I used to work with, because they are always getting complaints about smelling like weed.
