I think KronicKuz just assumed we all wanted to avoid having our real names on the package, so he only wrote our usernames/handles on the address list. I’ve only been trading seeds for a few months, but about half the people I have traded with used their real names and the other half used either their handle here or some other fake name.
Maybe it is best for each person in the chain mail to contact the next person on the list and ask what their preference is. Again, I apologize to @dgtxxx for not doing so.
Oh, and for the record, I too prefer to get mail to my real name. I think handles or fake names just draw unnecessary attention/suspicion. JMO.